Some people are just born into a troubled family. Some Children Think that alcohol abuse, and abuse are normal, they don’t know better. That’s what they get at home. Some Children get love through hitting and get these are references for their future life.
Boys learn to hit from their father. That is how you show love to a woman…well at least it’s what they think is normal.
Girls become offer and to get love and attention they get into trouble relationships. Because they don’t know better or because they want to help.
But happily there are women that somehow understand that THIS is NOT right! They fight hard to get out of a difficult situation. Maybe the last time they get hitted that is when they realize, TIME TO REACT. Out of this distructive relation. And they fight, fight and fight and survive and get stronger. They know love is better then that and has nothing to do with alcohol or drugs.
They are survivors, like Annika that came to me today, with a strong surviving spirit and a will to change Everything from negative to positive.
I tease you with a part of her Picture a red rose and a White cloth, simbols for purity and love.